“It seems every time I turn around, someone is complaining or griping at me,” fumed Colin “My boss picks apart every report I turn in. My wife doesn’t like the way I drive. The kids hate the food I ...
If criticism were an object, some people would think of it as a dagger, a spear, or a two-by-four aimed at the head. Too few think of it as a gift that can be useful and lead to beneficial long-term ...
Facing in-laws is often a minefield of subtleties where a critique can come disguised as "good intentions" or a harsh joke intended to hurt. Passive-aggressive behavior is particularly harmful because ...
You likely know that embracing constructive feedback is important, but it may still feel nearly impossible. That’s because criticism puts us (all humans) on high alert, raising our defenses as we ...
What’s the best way to handle criticism, especially if it seems unfounded, unkind, and motivated by hostility? You can ignore it. You can respond. Or you can use it to propel you forward. That’s what ...